Transform Pain into POWER! | Wayne Dyer

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pain is not a punishment it's a teacher when life presents challenges they come with lessons wrapped in Disguise if we learn to ask what is it here to teach me instead of resisting we unlock the transformative power of gratitude in this radio show Wayne Dyer reveals how physical pain like his debilitating neck issues is often a gateway to spiritual growth reminding us to slow down refocus and embrace Divine love he challenges us to see obstacles not as setbacks but as stepping stones to a higher purpose life is a tapestry of both valleys and Peaks and in embracing them all we discover our infinite unshakable connection to something greater special thanks to hey house to partner with us to release this content exclusively on our YouTube channel and if you make it all the way to the end of the video leave a hash believe in the comments below so I can celebrate with you believe Dr Dyer traveling all over was all over Australia and now you're back so it's did say Dr Wayne did you just say Dr Wayne Dyer is alive is that yay or did you say is live I miss that no I missant you're live you know live on the air this is this is when you know you're getting older you know when you start your radio show and they say yes and he's alive you know he is alive yeah alive and well anyway yeah yeah but you had some some challenges on the trip and you know I'm still having some major challenges absolutely yeah I've got uh I've got some kind of something crazy thing happened in my neck and I had some steroidal injections and um you know MRI eyes and um epidurals it's like I'm having a baby and um it was uh it's just been really in very incapacitating so but I I always the way I look at all of these things I'm feeling it right now so every once in a while I may scream on uh when I'm talking but that's okay um is that that everything everything happens for a reason and um whatever it is that I'm to go through whatever Les lessons I know in in U in Louise's book you can heal your life under neck injuries um the she's her contention is that what she learned is that neck issues relate to not being able to see um both sides of an an issue that you might be involved in not being able to see the other person's point of view whatever that might be I don't even have any conflicts like that that I can think of maybe a couple of minor ones so just not being a able to fully just uh you know see perceptions how somebody else who might be involved in an area of of dispute or so uh with you um is seeing things so it's like being able to cuz I can move from left to right just fine I can even move my head up but but moving it down to touch my chin to my chest it just sends off these peroxy of just crazy pain and and so I went to I did all the things that I was supposed to do and um did all the meditation I meditated on it for like 2 hours a day I still do I did this morning and then I went to San Diego and I met this wonderful anesthesiologist doctor who does this kind of work you know and uh they gave me a an epidural uh in my uh in my lumbar in my lower spine where I had been having difficulty and um that seemed to really work whatever it was it took away a lot of pain that it had there but the one in my neck just came back with a with a Vengeance and so I went down I flew down to CU I was told not to go he said they said you absolutely cannot go it's not safe you blah blah blah it's 16-hour flight and um but that's just not the way I do things I committed to it and uh I wasn't going to cancel under any conditions but when I got on stage there were 3,000 people there in Melbourne it was a wonderful wonderful crowd wonderful event and about 40 minutes into it um this little Gremlin on my neck uh just made himself known like uh you're not going to be going on any longer and I had to go down and not to my knee and it went off the stage first time in 40 Years of speaking that I I've ever had to do anything like that but after about an hour I was able to just calm it down and uh and then I went back out and I did it from a sitting position and I thought well maybe that's what I had to learn because all of the great speakers that I really loved throughout my life really listening to especially the speakers from the from the Far East and the great teachers Miss nadata and Manda and ramach Krishna and uh and even ramdas who was who who I whose talks I used to go to way before he had a stroka they'd always come out on the stage and instead of walking and pacing and sort of Performing the way I've been doing for for all these years they would sit and talk and have a conversation and I found I was able to do that if I was very careful about how I turned my neck and so on so uh I'm going to be doing my public television special taping on the 25th of September in San Diego and I'm going to be going to set the whole set up is like a living room thing and I'm going to sit and uh I actually so it took me about a week and my friend Nick ortner who was there with us on this tour who's the tapping solution he worked with me every day what a kind wonderful human being and um just really was just very concerned and helpful and uh and still continues to call me every day so uh I'm uh very very grateful to him in fact I put something about it on my on my Facebook page and he does things on tapping and Pain Relief and so on that tapping thing is something I've been fascinated by so I've been learning more about it I've been doing some of it for the last few months uh Nick is very very good at it so he worked with me all week in Sydney and I went out and we had set up a nice living room scene and I went out and spoke and we did uh it was beautiful we had a wonderful time there and uh and I flew back to Honolulu and uh I've been here I've been on I I decided to go on the back on the master cleanse so today is my eighth day I have two more days of not eating any food and I'm my body is feeling very strong feeling good I'm back swimming and walking and all of that it's just this neck thing and uh and my weight is down to what I I've been gluten-free I've talked about the gluten thing before and I'm going to do a PBS special on on this gluten thing because I think it's such an issue in in our culture on this wheat belly and U worry free wheat free your book through Hay House and since I've been doing that and now doing the cleanse and so on my weight is uh down to 180 this morning which is when I was 6'2 almost so that's what I was when I was running marathons so at 73 I got my weight where I wanted to be and I just look at so many people who are just too big I saw a lot of it in Australia as well and I thought a lot of people don't realize that uh our food supply literally has been just sort of taken over by these big conglomerates and I think it's being contaminated the last issue of Time Magazine has a cover on it called the world without bees I don't know if you saw that or not oh I did I read that article that's fascinating and and how how uh how dangerous that is to our world food supply something like 70 to 80% of the food that we uh that we eat is pollinated through bees and we can't get it without bees um but we we're genetically modifying all this food that we're putting into the ground and the be the you know the bees don't realize you know the bees don't recognize it as you know if you plant something into that's a flower that's been genetically modified that bee isn't going to go for that it's just uh and we're wondering why all of these things are happening and you know and why our food supply has been and why there's so much obesity in our culture and why there's uh you know even so much autism and uh and things that all of these things are just on such huge increases diabetes these things are just hugely growing and also in addition to the fact that people are just getting bigger and bigger and bigger and and not doing you know and Ne Glutton and they're finding that they they eat more and they're eat they're trying to eat uh normally and so on and they just keep gaining weight and so on and and we have uh we're not moving either yeah right but we've got to really take a hard look at what uh what we are doing when we start genetically modifying our food supplies and allowing companies to get patents on these seeds uh and modifying the food so that it doesn't reproduce its next Generation then all of a sudden half the be population of the of the world is disappearing and not making a connection there between we're starting to we we're manipulating you know the our food supply which is pollinated by the bees and the bees just don't recognize it anymore lots and lots of things going on out there like that we really need to look at it and again gluten is one of these things that's in to move to that as well is in something like 70 to 80% also of the food that we eat and it's coming from wheat that isn't wheat you know the wheat that we ate when we when I was a kid our Wheaties and all that it's nothing like the wheat that's uh now being put into uh into the food supply today it's uh that used to be wheat used to grow four or 5 ft high and amber waves of grain and uh you know it was like now it's it's about 18 in high it's modified so that it's every year you have to go back to the company that owns the seeds for it they can put about 10 times as much on an acre they use new pesticides with it and um and we haven't even tested it on uh long term on what impact this is having on on our population but you just have to look around and see there's some really really dramatic changes taking place in humanity based on the food that we're eating so lots of things to think about that's true lots of things to learn about definitely yeah but uh we were talking just a little bit before the show and I just kind of wanted to to bring this up because I know a lot of people are you know dealing with a healing situation and I'm actually talking to you laying on my back because I'm in I'm in a lot of pain now and you gave me some good advice just you know know that this isn't going to last forever and you know we we'll be able to get through it absolutely not only that I mean I just think it's know that it has something to teach you so ask yourself about this pain and and wherever there's pain there's fear because every time you have one of those old thing there's fear and wherever there's fear there isn't love so start sending love to this pain instead of fear to it and meditate on it and and ask what is it that you want from me why is it that you've shown up here uh what is do I have to slow down perhaps for me I look at being on stage and um and having to go off in in in sharp excruciating pain and when I came back out I I asked the question what is this for me and it's like I start to realize that the kinds of things that I'm talking about now related to Divine love and and and much more emphasis on on kindness and and moving this world away from uh the inner Terror that so many people have that is creating so much of the outer Terror and the outer terrorism the hatred that's in our hearts this requires a me to perhaps sit down and just talk to people and just look directly at them and to just have a conversation just like I'm doing right now with you rather than standing up and Performing and so on so maybe this is uh the universe's way of saying um sit down you know just just relax and uh and i' I've been dealing with this pain it's been almost chronic for about four four weeks now sometimes where it'll just take me to my knees but every time it does I say a prayer of gratitude for it and ask what's in it for me and I know that there many many people have come to me with u with a lot of help I've decided not to feed it any longer uh pain pills and things like that because I just I just don't like what those things uh you know what the side effects of them are on on my body and and putting those kind of drugs into my body is not something that I want to do uh so I'm cleansing and um just taking it as a uh as just another lesson as everything that comes into our life comes for a reason and so talk to it in those ways I'll work on it and and and yeah you'll be you'll be better you you'll be better so we'll be back to yoga in no time absolutely we have a you know a lot of people are anxious to talk to you so let's grab a few calls while we still uh we still have time some beautiful people up here so let's start with Jill I'm lying on the floor it's terrible oh here's Jill and she's in Chicago on line one and Jill you're on with Dr Wayne Dyer today thank you for taking my call hi Joe first of all I want to thank you because I heard about your longdistance healing so I ended up getting one too not as expensive as yours but I did it from from John of God yes it was very helpful oh I'm so happy to hear that it's just very interesting you say that before I talk to you that I just had a woman uh over here her name is Christie and she I got to know her a while back and her mom has uh terminal cancer and uh she's in 50s and she was crying and so I made a I provided for a way for them to go down to uh Brazil and spend two weeks down there it took care of that for them and she was just here the other day and brought me back so many things including some of the uh herbs for me and uh you know for this thing that's been going on uh in my body these days and um uh and it was just and I you know what for the first time I felt those entities back in when she was here she had just come back from there and brought me these crystals and uh and and the whole and I had been having a little difficulty in walking and so on and and when when she was here that all of that seemed to change I really felt that those entities were there so and her mother had an intervention while she was down there and it looks like she's on a healing path and she's got a some kind of ocular cancer that started in her eye and has moved throughout her body and it looks like she's healing so I'm just feeling really on top of the world about being able to be an instrument of helping that to come about and and then to hear you say that the first thing I hear on this call today so tell me what happened what what did you do well I just did it over the internet where I you know put in my information and what I wanted healed and they sent me the herbs the herbs came right away uhhuh and I felt like right away when I sent the email right away my heart opened and then I was present during the time he was doing the healings and I felt a lot of energy work in my female area and in my chest and I felt lighter and not so heavy that's wonderful that's right away I started feeling stuff and I haven't been that heavy since that's wonderful I was listening to you somewhere talk about it and I looked it up so I did it through John of God yes he's a he's a miraculous being on this planet he's a total gift he's living Christ Consciousness he's never charged anybody anything for all of the wonderful work that he's done he was hugely instrumental in in making a major shift for me went with the diagnosis of Leukemia and uh and taking that fear out of my uh out of me through this remote surgery and replacing it with love it changed my life I wrote about it in wishes fulfilled it's a um it's a very very powerful experience uh and and as I said that this lady this girl young woman she's in her in her in her late 20s and her mom both both spent two weeks down there and um really radically changed and even came back here and brought the entities I feel the entities were here with me because when I had that remote healing I had that feeling that you're talking about Jill and my children were here and I just looked at them differently the the world looked different the ocean looked different the trees everything just there was just you know and what it was is like I just felt love for everything and everyone and that's everything wasn't so isn't so personal MH yeah like I was raised that if there's a problem it's my fault and so I I that separation happened where it's not personal I'm so glad you call today that's that's so wonderful congratulations my dear I'm sure you're on your on your road is is I know that you went through a lot of you know Foster tear and stuff like that how did you move beyond your childhood what what did it for you what did it for me dear was uh was the awareness that uh that um that everything that happened to me in my childhood uh happened for a reason just like everything that's happening right now including what happened with you to get you to pick up the uh go to the internet and uh and create that remote connection what's happened with me in the last 3 or four weeks where I've been somewhat immobilized by this uh this neck pain my childhood uh various addictions that I've had in my life uh separation from my family my wife all of it all of it all of it has uh you just have to be in a state of gratitude for all of it and I came into this world to teach self-reliance and be self-directed uh I've written 41 books about it I've devoted my entire adult life to it and I had to go through the training in order to be able to do that and the best way to learn to uh training for how to teach people about self-reliance is to um to have to experience it yourself and there's no better place for that than an orphanage or or foster homes where you have just yourself to rely upon and once you have that in place um all of the other experiences I've just written an entire book about this called I can see clearly now it won't be out until March but I I looked at all of the experiences starting with my earliest years in foster care uh right up until U just a recent experience I had in uh in turkey at the home of the of the mother of Jesus in Ephesus and every experience in between was all part of a tapestry that was orchestrated by a Divine um purpose and while our lives are uh laid out for us uh we select them before we come into this world we also have choices to make along the way when um whatever it is that we are supposed to learn is presented to us right there before us and that's why I spoke this morning about when you're in pain and when you're struggling instead of um you know praying for it to go away and hoping that and asking yourself why is this happening to me or putting the responsibility for it on some silly idea that you've done something to deserve this instead you make a shift you just make a shift and say that uh you know everything you know life is Hills and Valleys and this is just a little Valley and when I'm in a valley the only Direction I can go if I keep moving is out of the valley and and to the top and when you're at the top the only Direction you can go if you keep moving is back down into another Valley and that's the sign you know that sign of uh you know when you study about electricity it's a sign there's a there's a Zenith and there's a Nader there's an up and there's a down to it that's how life is and when these things come along be in a state of gratitude for it and uh and talk to it and ask what what is it that I have to learn from it and uh get out of the way of uh you know agonizing over it or being upset with it or feeling sorry for yourself about it and instead uh say thank you thank you whatever it is that you have to teach me uh you know Diane's lying on her back right there right now she needs to lie on her back today for whatever reason she needs to have time to just go within and get quiet I needed to uh experience leukemia in order to become a uh a more God realized person a more compassionate person I needed to go through separation from my wife 13 years ago and the pain and almost clinical depression that followed that in in order to be able to come to a more compassionate kind loving place myself and I've written six or seven books since that occurred all of which have impacted the lives of millions and millions of people and those millions of people um many of whom are listening right now couldn't have been impacted in those ways had I not written those books and I couldn't have written those books if I if everything had just been going along hunky D the way I wanted it to go I needed to have the valley I needed to have it we uh and it's all part of it and when you really Truly Come to an awareness that who you are is not this body and not this all this stuff that you accumulate and that who you are is really an infinite Divine God realized being a piece of God that just keeps occupying new bodies throughout your entire time from the time you are 8 pounds until you're you know dying that who you are is that invisibl that is indestructible that is you're carrying around something that is deathless within you and uh the best way to take care of that Temple that you live in is to get closer and closer to God and that's my answer to that that was beautiful thank you you're very very welcome that you're so welcome so what you said to me was was perfect yeah be grateful be in a state of gratitude be in a state of gratitude for all of it even the times when it seems to be the hardest uh say thank you try try to just say thank you for it and and just watch and see It'll motivate you to want to uh do something for others rather than to think about yourself as well yeah there you go thank you Jill thank you Jill God bless you wonderful call today thank you from Chicago and I think I needed to hear that as well well I was I was talking need to hear that I could pict it's true I am not I am not this body racked with pain and I am grateful because I I have someone actually helping me and you know there's a lot of people that are helping me and all the guys I told you someone to go to but there's also there's also a wonderful book there's a wonderful book written about about back pain that when uh I read it it really it and and I gave it to my mother to read by a man named John Sarno I learned about it from a guy named Howard Stern who I'm sure you've heard of who has a radio show and he had huge back problems many many years ago and this guy came on his show he used to do his show lying on the ground that's why I'm thinking about you lying on the ground and John Sarno came into his office and he said he changed his life you can read his book in an hour it's called healing back pain and I've heard of John Sno I'm going to check that out yeah yeah healing back pain and he uh it's just a small about 90 page book in fact I just went to Abu Dhabi earlier this year with my daughter Serena and uh her fiance and he was having these issues as well and I had him read that book and his he hasn't had one back flutter even since he read that and basically it's like uh you have to accept the diagnosis that there's physically nothing wrong with your back and there's no reason for you to be in that pain that you're in that it's all emotional Bas and once you accept that diagnosis that there's really nothing wrong with your back you really can get that and he said about 95 to 96% of the back injur issues that people have there's really no reason and even if they look at X-rays and they see all kinds of little little cracks here and little things there they said that's all the normal part of aging some people have that and have pain and other people have that and just never have the pain so healing back pain John Sarno I can't recommend it highly enough yeah I'm going to check that out you know but I can really see where you can get on this downward spiral and start popping the pain pills and I can really I can see that very clearly how that could go terribly WR I did that as well I'm not going to let that happen they gave me this vik and a couple of things and I took a couple of them and I just thought no I don't like the way I'm talking I don't like the way I'm thinking I don't like the way my body is saying no this is not healthy for you you're gluten free just go out there yeah just do better just cleanse yourself so that's what I've been doing and we're going to heal all of this we're going to heal the whole short break we're going to heal everybody we'll be right back after just a few minutes here more with Dr Dyer and wishes fulfilled thanks for joining us and we will be going right back to your calls and give you a chance to talk to Dr Dyer uh let's go to line three Carrie and she's in Alberta Canada hi with a relationship question hi Carrie go ahead Carrie you're on with Dr Dyer well I first of all I have total compassion for neck issues so I just want to to just uh wish you and extend my my heart to you both with having thank you but good news is that yes you can overcome it absolutely just a little necking I think would do it that's that's what I was told I don't know if I can do that too long we can well we can do it spiritually okay spiritual necking how's that yeah a lot better than what I've been involved in lately but I Mike I guess like I don't even know really how to bring this into a short sweet version but I've you know feel like I've been you know on this path for so many years and and changing so many things and letting go of so much and my dog was my the last 16 years has really been my real companion and I've never really well he's changed my life he's I'm actually doing spiritual work for a living because of him and and the whole bit and got me out of an abusive marriage you know 16 years ago and on and on but it was truly an inspiration but I just had to say goodbye to him and he is really been like honestly out of 50 years my only true love of my life and I am just having a hell of a time and I know I had need to grieve properly because in the past I would always put on that happy face and I wound up with post-traumatic stress because of not dealing with really what I feel so I understand it at my core but it's just that fine line I don't I just feel I feel kind of what is the point anymore I just I feel Fe of hopelessness what is the point what do I believe anymore what is your belief about your dog yeah that um you really think your dog was just whatever those bones and fur and teeth and things that it was you really think that was your dog you describe your dog as this H this this being that came into your life and saved you that being this that is within that dog is the same beingness that's within you and all of us it's deathless it's a your your dog isn't the bones and uh the physicalness that it was your dog is an infinite Divine being that's always there with you and I think that's the frustrating thing for me is because I do animal intuitive work like the for living and I get that but it's this I out of all the people I thought that I would feel him energetically I thought that I you know I just ass zoomed it was so easy and I feel like I can I can do it for others and right now I think where are you my body and I think that's what it's because you you you're so identified with your senses and believing that what's your eyes and your ears and what you can see is reality when in fact we all know that the only thing that's real is that that which is never changing everything that's changing isn't real the minute that you get a hold of something and you think you got what it is it's something different so it's not real which is what your dog was your dog if you're associating your dog with the physicalness that it was it was constantly a constantly changing being I got a great book for you to read really I mean it's I think it's going to really help you a lot it's called The Art of racing in the rain I'm I'm reading it right now oh good wait wait till you get wait till you get to the end of it you're just going to be it's written by a dog but um and what this is what's so ironic because I do animal communication for a living and I and it's just that I was shot like my I'm so I'm missing his physical self because he was just High candy in my life too and I think that's because I don't have a partner and I haven't had one for years and I think that that I that became a big but you have to there's something Carri there's something you have to do today and that I mean today I really feel a really calling to this go to the pound go to a place where there's a dog that's about to be taken and bring it home for you that's what your dog wants you to do I mean really and truly well you know if you know about animals you know there's an animal shelter there and there's a dog waiting for you and you need to understand that uh I don't feel like do that yet I feel like in the past I've always been open and I do work at the shelter I do volunteer a lot and I to do pattern is I've been to a point where people are saying no car you now have to look after yourself because I've been caregiving for so long that I but that's how that's how you take care of yourself Carrie that's what you've been doing for all these years that's why you got out of that abusive relationship you take care of yourself by taking care of others this whole idea this this is an neotic assumption that uh you know I've got to give up all of that other stuff and I just got to think about me the best way to think about you is to forget about you and to put your attention and your love and your kind and extend it outward which is what you have been doing it's why you've been so successful and it's why you had such a love affair with your dog and this idea that uh it's time time to put all of that aside the greatest joy that you have is your communication with your animals and you're telling yourself that I'm going to deny myself that and that's going to make me feel better there's just I just thought been two weeks that I've lost them it does it doesn't matter weeks there there's no there's no time Carrie there's no time weeks months years it doesn't make any difference there's an animal out there that needs to be saved that's yours and I think you even already know what animal it is you're just so terrified of uh getting yourself back into that place and taking care of an animal is nothing but just pure joy for you anyway it's hard it's been a really hard road with us so like I mean at the end there it's been it has been in and and I think that's where I've got myself in the bedridden from like not like I I've you know learned that there is a point where I do have to listen to myself and honor that and I think for me I like this is my what I feel like mlu is guiding me to do is to start up a grief relief um support group is what I feel that's wonderful I I think that you know all of those anything that you can do to get yourself defocused off of this idea that your dog has died you know you've got you your dog didn't die nothing dies you know dying is not possible you know things just keep getting transformed things just changing the everything that materializes dematerializes everything that materializes dematerializes and it's the spirit that gives life it's the disappointed in in in my life I think I just feel there's been so much loss and so so much you better get down on your knees and be grateful for every single one of those including your abusive husband you know and all of those experiences that you had all along the way get out of the pity party sweetheart and stop feeling sorry for yourself and reach out to somebody else today reach out to someone else today and thinks very strongly about there's an animal that you you know what this animal is I think you know what animal it is I really do something tells me that you I I don't I actually been to the shelter for a couple weeks and I didn't go where the dogs were yeah so I because I'm not kidding you when I say I've been consumed by looking after my dog for quite some time I believe that and I think that's that's probably what has brought you to this great place that you are and instead of you looking at your life and saying look at what I've been able to accomplish look at how far I've transcended look at all the accomplishments that I have look at how much love that I've given instead of doing all of that you're busy filling your head with all of the stuff that didn't happen and shouldn't have happened and and and full of disappointments about yourself and all you're doing is disappointing the highest place within yourself which is God grieving I just feel like I've never honored grieving before and I feel like that is a part I've learned too that there is a point where I do need to feel what I feel and and I because I would always dishonor that I'd always go no I'm a better person and I would climb that higher ladder and and it caught up to me it it it up well my my teacher was Abraham mlo and he said often to us uh you you know the self-actualizing people the people who are the highest evolved evolved people on the planet get over death almost as if it didn't happen and most people think of that as um as a flaw and that they're not through the grieving process and they don't go through all the steps that Elizabeth KU Ross laid out for us but the fact is that there's no need to grieve if you understand you know if you understand the messages of Abraham if you understand the messages of that that who we are are infinite Divine beings you know that that can never die you know I think dust to dust was not written of the Soul it's not that's not what that's not the soul you know it's like who we are is who we are as infinite including you and including your beautiful dog well it's funny cuz with people I've lost it didn't phase me it's like I just know in a happier place it's just it's because you you you believe that the because you don't still don't you don't get the idea that love is not something that's physical love is just it's an outpouring of your essence of who you are and it isn't you got it located in an object in a creature um when I get that's here like energetically I I get that it's just I'm feeling I I admit I am really missing his physical presence in my life just to have that little face wake me up in the morning and that well there's another there's another little face that's waiting for you I promise you and if you if you do that you will be healed immediately instantaneously I'm get I'm I'm coming to you from a place of truth right here and and I yeah I really feel it very very strongly dear you do not have to take time away to get away to take care of yourself by not serving others serving others is the way that you do take care of yourself that's what makes you feel the best when I can do something for somebody else that's when I feel absolutely the best it's when I constantly thinking about myself that I want to get under the covers and and I'm showing up with my work and helping people and that which taking a lot but you know it's this one I would love your take just quickly on this could I just ask you something that real quickly because we've got yeah it's just the vet that I ended up that I've used for years uh for muckluck and my other animals and long story short I've never looked at them in any way shape or form as anything other than my vet and I feel like my dog is up to something because it's all of a sudden there's something with my vet but because it's I love it might because there's something professional there like I've never crossed that with him and we're very what's Prof what's professional about a a vet you're not his you're not you're not one of his patients what what's professional about that well he he has he does work with my animals and and I've done a lot of rescue work with him like in and and there it is there's your dog telling you okay so you're missing the love that I've got so here's one for you and you're going to deny it forget about that profession even know if he knows I exist in that way because I've always been just carry the you know the patient or you know here with you no you know you know I do you yeah you know if he knows if he notices you and if he feels something uh you know send him a gift give him a call talk to him invite him to go for a sandwich really um absolutely of course you don't have to you know you're only you're only getting one shot at this life you know it's like you know I just I read a book while I was in uh Australia called the five regrets of the dying mhm you know so this was a woman who worked with dying people she was a nurse you know and she worked um you know where people come to die and She interviewed them thousands of them and uh and what do you think the top regret of all of the people that She interviewed all these years when she was doing that Divine work she was doing what do you think the top regret of people who are dying is well is the things that they didn't do things that they didn't yeah it's yeah it's that I wish I I really wish I'd have had the courage to live my life and do the things that I felt that I should do that's the number one regret of the dying so you're one of the dying we're all dying you know if we identify with our bodies so don't feel yourself with regret pick up the phone call and like and you'll find out in a minute and it is your dog talking je well you know what thank you for that because I just felt that you know what I don't need to pound the payment anymore because that's my old personality right just so if it's meant to be Let It Go but it's just is right exactly right well here it is greatest lesson I can give you of this you never never regret what you do you only regret what you don't do okay so there you go so if you do something and it doesn't work out you don't regret that you say okay I learned now I know what to do okay but if you always wonder and I always learned that I learned that at my 30th High School reunion when I was dancing with Janice Nelson and she was the prettiest thing I could I had ever seen 30 years before when I was in high school and I was telling her that as I was dancing with her you know and I said I just never had the courage to call you up I wanted to take you out so badly and she said oh my God I always had a question on you I always wish that you would have called and I'm going oh my god there you go again you know 30 years you know and I all and and I would have known if IID have picked up the phone I would have known either way I would have known so so funny though isn't it when you just like I mean for example this bed I've never looked at him in in that way period ever and so now it's it's and I I guess it's a very vulnerable place I don't want to feel like an idiot but I guess I'll get over it there's nothing to feel about it's it's just kindness It's just just being with another human being absolutely thank you so much thanks Carrie God bless you dear and let's see well you were just an Australia so let's go there glattus in Sydney and she is online six oh I GL still there I am here this is Happy bottom this is Happy bottom the happy bottom remember that call glus yes remember that call you said I was going to W up to my Beed you were there not only Not only was glattus there with me in uh in Melbourne when I went flying off the stage in this excruciating pain um but she also came to Sydney oh it's so good to hear your voice so what did you think of all of that my dear well that's why I called you I wanted to let you know that um reading your books especially wish is fulfilled which is the one that changed my life um knowing your your change of thought change your life and knowing that I can ask for everything and the the the unity that is between all of us the universe and seeing you on stage was one of the most beautiful wonderful fulfilling things in that I've done in my life it was it was gorgeous um wanting to meet you um I didn't realize how difficulty would be um but seeing you in um in pain on in Melbourne I thought okay um my hug in my keiss that's not going to happen because I'm not pulling on that neck um but hearing you hearing you speak was just beautiful and you are everything that I thought you'd be on stage you you gave me goosebumbs I felt your energy I'm not one to see extraordinary things but with you I saw your aura I saw that shiny things that people talk about around people with you I saw that and I was it just it it really blew me away and I wanted to thank you for that because because you you are truly a wonderful human being it inspired me to grab my passport and go and and and renew it because I want to be there with you in January I said Mari oh that would be yeah that would be so wonderful yes that's going to be such an important weekend yeah it's my intention um to be there it was my intention to have that picture with you because I have it on my vision board as I told you before I knew once I saw you the first time in Melbourne that that wasn't going to be but it gave me the the inspiration to go and see you in Mai and I will get my picture with you oh oh you definitely will you'll definitely it's interesting I want to to speak lce just for a moment about about that experience because for me this was a this was a very unique experience I mean I've been doing public speaking for 4 years almost you know since my early 30s I'm 73 so it's been over 40 years and I've never ever had anything like that where I just could not continue because uh and I've gone on with fevers and I've gone on with sore backs and all of that and usually they just dissolve and go away because the the adrenaline just sort of takes over and you just sort of temporarily heal yourself but this was something that even when I went out there I knew I knew wasn't going to go away and then when I was backstage after about 40 minutes when I just couldn't uh I just just couldn't focus any longer cuz the pain was so excruciating that I couldn't even remember hardly my name it hurts so much but they wanted to put me in an ambulance and take me to the hospital and and all of this and I just kept saying to everyone everyone just calm down you know God is right here right now there's 3,000 people out there and I didn't fly all the way down here to disappoint them and walk away in an ambulance I'm going to go back I'm going to go back Just Give Me A Sign then Nick ortner came out and he did the tapping session a beautiful tapping gave one of the best talks he's ever given out there did you did you feel it how when we were tapping on you did you feel that I did feel it I absolutely did feel it cuz he had the whole everybody tapping on this healing thing and I just got tapping on you wonderful and then I walked back out after about one hour I walked back and I sat down and I talked for the rest I gave it like an hour and half I could have gone on and on all day and it all came back and everything was there and then when I went back to my hotel room I thought this is not this uh in fact Epoch choper was back there backstage with me because we were just appear here in the afternoon and he was so concerned about what the people would think this is going to are they going to think that you're weak are they going to think that and I told epak I said it hasn't I said I'm not the least bit concerned about that I said I I have there's 3,000 people in this room who love me and and are sending me love and I'm going to go back out there and this healing will take place and whatever healing it was that I needed to get there and then through the whole next week until I did Sydney the following Saturday and that you know the one and Sydney I mean you were there how did you feel it went yes oh it was beautiful I knew that you had the neck pain and and I was hoping that you would be okay for that show CU I wanted to hear everything you had to say and I loved the setup and then I love the fact that that you spoke about the experience and and you changed it up a little bit and then it gave me that different perspective of you and and put everything together for me it it put all your teachings and and I can I could see because I've seen you in in DVDs before I could see change in you I and that was wonderful to see that you you've evolved into this this everything that you write about this Divine love that you speak about you you can see it in your eyes it's it's just yes so amazing thank you thank you for that that's so wonderful in your eyes that yeah I got I've got to go we just I noticed we just got a minute to go but I I really feel God was right there uh with me and and and I give thanks for that experience I don't I'm not ashamed of that or embarrassed about it at all I give thanks for that it's brought me to a whole new place yeah thank you glattus thanks again for everyone it was a wonderful show and Diane greatday great message yeah thanks Dr Dyer okay God bless see you next week Dr Dyer welcome good morning how are you I'm doing very very well this morning that's great I guess it's not morning anywhere else but I'm inwon I'm stuck in the same time zone all all day long right what's going on in your life this week well I've uh just been giving a little thought to uh something that I uh was talking to my friend Byron Katie about uh just a few weeks ago on a seminar that we did which I believe is going to be put out by Hay House as well in another month or two uh it was an all day seminar and she spoke about not being in other people's business and I've given that a lot of thought and there's a lot of ways that uh that that's something that interferes with us with especially with our own happiness and fulfillment that people one of the things that I've noticed a lot I don't know if you've noticed it somewhere but the uh if you look on the news stand recently you're going to see uh just a proliferation of these gossip magazines and they all look almost the same and there used to be one or two there was like People magazine and Us magazine and a few others but now there must be 50 of these things that are that are out there and they all cover the um they all cover the same things the same people I think it's Angelina and it's Jennifer and it's Brad and uh maybe a handful of others people who are celebrity type people and they and they have U photographers following them around wherever they go and uh every one of these magazines in fact many of them just use the same pictures over and over and over again and every week it's the same it's the continuous thing and I keep thinking about why are there so many of these now why is there must be a great deal of profit in that and why is this one great big profitable item that the American people seem to be just obsessed with with the the business of other people the the uh you know who's had plastic surgery who's pregnant who looks pregnant who looks like maybe they would want to be pregnant who looks you know that every story is uh just sort of a continuation of of people being obsessed with other people's business and one of the things that I've learned specifically in the last year or so working on on my new book called change your thoughts change your life which won't be out till later this year but it's on living the da and many of you who follow this radio you know that I have been uh working on writing uh individual essays about the 81 verses that La Chu wrote about uh 2500 years ago and how to apply this ancient and Powerful wisdom so what I've done is uh you know I've looked at this this whole concept of not interfering in our lives and not being obsessed with you know other people's lives the da teaches us that non interference is the most important thing and most important place that we can go to in our lives so um I was just the other day I I was uh assigned to sort of a a little babysitting uh adventure with my grandson and two little girls and I was watching them for three hours out by the pool and I noticed I was trying to practice this non-interference staying out of other people's business and just making sure that uh these are three little children that know how to swim and all that but just make sure that they're safe but anything else just stay out of their business I had made up my mind I'm going to just stay out of their business and I would watch the two of them would go together down at one end of the pool and they'd be fighting about something and they'd be arguing about this and then they'd want to come and tell me to resolve it and it was back and forth back and forth with this continuous trying to include me in their business and I was determined that I was going to stay out of their business and I would watch as uh like I was in the pool with one of the little girls her name is Kylie and she started being unhappy about something that her sister had said or my grandson had said and I looked at her and I said well um you get that result and I'll be right back and I dove down to the bottom of the pool swam to the other edge of the pool what by the time I got to the other end of the pool maybe 20 seconds later took my head up the two of them were hugging and I found that it over a three-hour period that I could completely stay out of the business of these little children and they could resolve it themselves and were learning much much more than just having one great big person come along and interfere now there's an application between that and these gossip magazines as strange as it may sound and that is that I think that if you who you are whoever you are if you're obsessed with um what somebody else is doing in their life who they're dating what their sex life is like whether or not they've gained weight whether or not they've had a boob job whether or not the endless kind of obsession with this kind of information is something that you might really want to take a look at and ask yourself am I in my business or am I in somebody else's business and if I'm continuously putting my focus on what somebody else is doing what I what I'm really doing is Shifting the energy away from uh living my