StageMem: Lifecycle-Managed Memory for Language Models

arXiv:2604.16774v1 Announce Type: cross Abstract: Long-horizon language model systems increasingly rely on persistent memory, yet many current designs still treat memory primarily as a static store: write an item, place it into memory, and retrieve it later if needed. We argue that this framing does not adequately capture the practical memory-control problem in deployed LLM systems. In realistic settings, the difficulty is often not merely forgetting useful information, but retaining too many un